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    Bambino di Agrigento Primo Playmaker's Avatar
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    Can you like or trust somebody you never butt heads with?

    It's like

    I love companionship and being on the same page with somebody etc etc

    But I need real emotions sometimes.

    A little drama and seeing somebody's ugly makes me feel more connected.

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    Yes, real emotion to me doesn’t need to hinge on negativity (butting heads). It can hinge on sharing vulnerability with another. Time and consistency builds trust.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Apollinaire Charisme View Post
    It's like

    I love companionship and being on the same page with somebody etc etc

    But I need real emotions sometimes.

    A little drama and seeing somebody's ugly makes me feel more connected.

    I relate to this. I feel like people who constantly keep it neutral aren't human, or their negativity seeps out in other ways ie: passive aggression, deceit, disingenuous behaviours, resentment

    I like to scrap it out, and forgive and forget. People love holding on to shit, and then acting accordingly and call it self preservation, but it's really revenge. then complain that love doesn't exist.

    Communication and problem solving is key. Then you dead it. Move on.

    it's so hard to find people who move like this, everyone is so self absorbed.
    they got amnesia

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