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    Quote Originally Posted by zyclon b gas View Post
    Yes. That’s why I like to limit my actions or reactions to moments that deserve them, as well as my involvement in places/situations that may elicit an action. If people want to fight, I walk away; talk shit, I just ignore or agree and keep moving.


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    true. i'm like this.
    they got amnesia

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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    i belive everything in life is connected. if you're absorbing without reaction, your subconscious is pouring it to another area where it could seem like something else, but its the deep "issues" you've been silencing. i don't know much, but i think that's how psychologists diagnose you. by dissecting each 'trauma response' specifically, and tying it into something else that has nothing to do with the response.

    ie: if someone says they are completely unbothered by 'haters', on the outside they may seem like a free spirit, calm, laid back. but internally they are burning with animosity, pessimism, rigid boundaries which in turns prohibits people from getting close to them etc. just one scenario.

    i would assume people whose psyche is considered "normal" (people who can make general genuine connection with humans, animals, all other living beings etc), all have Positive traits, and Negative traits. i assume some traits are biological, and some are learned due to circumstance.
    I wouldnít consider people trying to intimidate or belittle you as traumatic. the childhood, teenage, and adult trauma I actually went through are why Iím closed off to relationships, but itís very hard to incite anger with me and I take words with a grain of salt.


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    yeah, I'm literally done with them. my fav thing from them is their chicken nuggets but I'm not eating McDonald's again. quote me.
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    I wanted to be a hot dog

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    Quote Originally Posted by doctor_wp View Post
    Even silence is a response tbh
    Agreed, but itís the best response in tense situations because itís the least likely reaction to escalate.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Twamp View Post
    yeah, I'm literally done with them. my fav thing from them is their chicken nuggets but I'm not eating McDonald's again. quote me.
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    I wanted to be a hot dog

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    Quote Originally Posted by zyclon b gas View Post
    I wouldn’t consider people trying to intimidate or belittle you as traumatic. the childhood, teenage, and adult trauma I actually went through are why I’m closed off to relationships, but it’s very hard to incite anger with me and I take words with a grain of salt.


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    This is untrue. Emotional abuse is almost worse than physical abuse. The two together - forget about it
    they got amnesia

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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    This is untrue. Emotional abuse is almost worse than physical abuse. The two together - forget about it
    Yes.

    So much yes.

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    Im a beleiver in doing whats necessary i might not be good at it, but its what i consider during life.

    For example zyclons story of the weirdo who wanted some trouble. Whats necessary in that situation? It definitely wasnt necessary to fight him. Or in an argument where someone turns hurtful and mean. Is it necessary to be hurtful and mean back? Thats kinda how i see things.
    Outwardly there is cronological time. The mind has applied this internally, it says, logically there is time its obvious. So then the mind thinks within time. I am a little depressed now, but i will get to a state of non depression later. The now and later is the time. Takes time to get from here to there. This is also creating a duality. Two things. I am this(the now), i will be that(the later). Simple things like this make you believe in theres a me controlling the thinking.
    nawmchomsky?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir Bustalot View Post
    Im a beleiver in doing whats necessary i might not be good at it, but its what i consider during life.

    For example zyclons story of the weirdo who wanted some trouble. Whats necessary in that situation? It definitely wasnt necessary to fight him. Or in an argument where someone turns hurtful and mean. Is it necessary to be hurtful and mean back? Thats kinda how i see things.
    this is facts, doing what is necessary given the scenario. but it goes back to absorption.
    they got amnesia

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    Quote Originally Posted by doctor_wp View Post
    Even silence is a response tbh
    I can't even lie

    I'd rather be punched than ignored

    Having my anger met with silence is a knife in the stomach

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    Quote Originally Posted by Apollinaire Charisme View Post
    I can't even lie

    I'd rather be punched than ignored

    Having my anger met with silence is a knife in the stomach
    As someone whos excellent at ignoring. And im not saying your case is the same, but to offer insight on why ill choose to ignore may give you some understanding on why some may do it.

    If im in a discussuion, an argument, over something i or you have done. And you take it to the level of absurdity with being stubborn in thought, mean and hurtfull in your arguments, and just want to insult me, in my head i say "oh this person is too bullheaded right now, too angry and just wants to belittle me, i see now this will get nowhere" and shut the convo down and leave. And ill sit through a bit of it because maybe you just need a moment to get your anger out and hear me out,

    we can come back to it when youre willing to be level headed....but im just not into those convos

    Ive been accused of avoiding problems, but i dont care. I dont have time to listen to angry insults and waste my time on a verbal fight of whos more stubborn or mean. I want to understand your perspective but i cant follow if its all hatred and anger. Just tell me the problem in the least amount of insults and hatred. We can deal with it much quicker that way
    Outwardly there is cronological time. The mind has applied this internally, it says, logically there is time its obvious. So then the mind thinks within time. I am a little depressed now, but i will get to a state of non depression later. The now and later is the time. Takes time to get from here to there. This is also creating a duality. Two things. I am this(the now), i will be that(the later). Simple things like this make you believe in theres a me controlling the thinking.
    nawmchomsky?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    This is untrue. Emotional abuse is almost worse than physical abuse. The two together - forget about it
    Iím speaking about people who you donít know, aka haters. If you have people youíre around regularly who try to bring you down, why are they still in your life? Strangers have zero effect on my day to day with their words and actions.

    I agree with verbal/mental abuse being on par or worse than physical when itís people you love, look up to, etc.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Twamp View Post
    yeah, I'm literally done with them. my fav thing from them is their chicken nuggets but I'm not eating McDonald's again. quote me.
    Quote Originally Posted by Paper View Post
    I wanted to be a hot dog

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