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    I react very strongly to the hate. It's not fair, I don't like it and it very much upsets me. I don't think that's a surprise based on how I've reacted to it here. I wish I could be more thick skinned, luckily it rarely happens.


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    Sort of like the dickhead I deal with that work.


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    I do not give a single fraction of a fuck about anyone's opinion of me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    do negative comments affect you?
    No. People talking shit to me has zero effect. Criticism I take easily because Iím always looking to improve, but straight negative comments I always just laugh at and move on.

    For example, before I moved to Texas I was visiting my brother and his wife there and we were walking down the street and some guy walked by, leaned in, and called me a pussy. Obviously he was looking for a reaction, but my immediately reaction was to laugh at the idiocy of the situation. How many people are ready to fight when theyíre insulted or someone bumps them or talks shit? Thatís childish imo. I laughed and kept walking as he stared at me and repeated it until he realized he had no effect and had to keep it moving.

    Iíve been pushed, yelled at, and threatened. I donít care.


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    yeah, I'm literally done with them. my fav thing from them is their chicken nuggets but I'm not eating McDonald's again. quote me.
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    I wanted to be a hot dog

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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    thats a hater. it has more layers though, it was probably a build up of scenarios throughout the years between you two that made him snap like that. no one 100% at fault, but i find in this case.. you guys had already grown apart slowly

    he was probably not bringing up those small issues, in the name of keeping peace withtin the friendship, but i find those subtle animosities build up due to jealousy, self esteem issues etc. it hurts when your "best friends" or siblings can't be happy for you. but it's also like, how are you projecting your happiness to the world? are you making it look easy when it was extremely hard?

    people admire vulnerability, on the flip side they use it against you

    the human psyche is wild
    yeah we had, and his self esteem had plummeted due to health issues. Ill call him up again one day just to see if hes willing to work it out. I never considered that a hater, but i guess he is LOL

    in my late 20s i stopped looking at happiness as an end product and more like a byproduct. Since then happiness hasnt been a goal.

    i def know psychos will use vulnerability against you and know how to. Thats what makes them so psycho and not just normal LOL
    Outwardly there is cronological time. The mind has applied this internally, it says, logically there is time its obvious. So then the mind thinks within time. I am a little depressed now, but i will get to a state of non depression later. The now and later is the time. Takes time to get from here to there. This is also creating a duality. Two things. I am this(the now), i will be that(the later). Simple things like this make you believe in theres a me controlling the thinking.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    how is it humanly possible to not be affected by negative energy? have you ever been affected by negativity ?
    I likewise don't understand why people let others that have zero ability to have any impact on what they are doing bother them, and take time and energy to be feeling a certain way.

    My wife always bothered by someone shading her, so are many of my staff. Always conflict, tension or people getting offended over meaningless shit.

    I don't let negative or positive energy from people emotionally affect me or change my flow.

    Now if someone wants to do something to sabotage me, disrupt my plans, or mess with my pockets, then I will respond in a way they will regret ever fucking with me,but just hating, gossiping, talking, having an attitude, not liking me. I don't care.

    It's funny to me to worry about that kind of irrelevant shit. Big picture it means nothing.


    I think I got over that as a kid. I had a mentally ill mother and was an only child. I stopped really listening or letting others bother me early.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BULLY View Post
    I likewise don't understand why people let others that have zero ability to have any impact on what they are doing bother them, and take time and energy to be feeling a certain way.

    My wife always bothered by someone shading her, so are many of my staff. Always conflict, tension or people getting offended over meaningless shit.

    I don't let negative or positive energy from people emotionally affect me or change my flow.

    Now if someone wants to do something to sabotage me, disrupt my plans, or mess with my pockets, then I will respond in a way they will regret ever fucking with me,but just hating, gossiping, talking, having an attitude, not liking me. I don't care.

    It's funny to me to worry about that kind of irrelevant shit. Big picture it means nothing.


    I think I got over that as a kid. I stopped really listening or letting others bother me early.
    Agreed


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    Quote Originally Posted by Twamp View Post
    yeah, I'm literally done with them. my fav thing from them is their chicken nuggets but I'm not eating McDonald's again. quote me.
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    I wanted to be a hot dog

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    Quote Originally Posted by cody View Post
    give an example of what would tick you off in this regard
    We all have that frenemy who swoops into action whenever you get a compliment; no matter what it is.

    Transparent enough to shrug off

    Biting enough to create a sliver of self-doubt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BULLY View Post
    I likewise don't understand why people let others that have zero ability to have any impact on what they are doing bother them, and take time and energy to be feeling a certain way.

    My wife always bothered by someone shading her, so are many of my staff. Always conflict, tension or people getting offended over meaningless shit.

    I don't let negative or positive energy from people emotionally affect me or change my flow.

    Now if someone wants to do something to sabotage me, disrupt my plans, or mess with my pockets, then I will respond in a way they will regret ever fucking with me,but just hating, gossiping, talking, having an attitude, not liking me. I don't care.

    It's funny to me to worry about that kind of irrelevant shit. Big picture it means nothing.


    I think I got over that as a kid. I had a mentally ill mother and was an only child. I stopped really listening or letting others bother me early.
    Sneez used to get to you
    Where were you when I recorded in the bathroom?
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    Moose (who I usually feel is an impulsive moron with shallow intellect) .

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    However, I'm learning to navigate interpersonal mindfields with a little more grace these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emobito View Post
    Sneez used to get to you
    No, it's certain people I think are lame, and to me it was entertaining to roast them because I knew I could get to them. Ripping into people was a great way to pass time while bored at work or in class
    I honestly can't remember a single thing sneez ever said to mevor about me. I just know he would be lame in general. I would tear into alot of dudes on RM. Invy got it bad, j nyce, d omen, odd job.

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    I doubt I have any haters. I'm pretty low-key.

    I'm motivated by a lack of desire to be stuck in the same role forever.

    There are definitely people I meet and just don't like. I can see why someone might not like me at first meeting. My best friend thought I was annoying as hell when we first met. I've mellowed out a lot with age.
    Start from the beginning, and when you get to the end, stop.

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