Could anyone here ever admit

[Vulgar]

I’ve been more intimidated by situations, not people - not since I was very young and less experienced.

When I had to perform a public speech in front of thousands at a banquet to accept a college Hall of fame induction on my fathers behalf, I can’t remember being so nervous in my life. I had to represent the family name and I had to show who’s in charge of carrying on my fathers legacy. All of that was on the line and I was gonna make sure i was flawless in my execution- then I went up there, charmed the crowd and it all felt natural afterwards


I share this to say this, it’s usually the situation, not necessarily the person and once you accept that, you can apply pressure and take care of business.


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I feel that.

But people nah.

[cody]

So everyone here immune to jealousy and envy towards people.. lmao

Something isn’t adding up.

[Sir Bustalot]

Once you find the cause of jealousy, you can end it completely. Not just on a case by case basis.

I think maybe the ones of us left here are above average in mental maturity

[cody]

I don’t believe jealousy/envy is a trait that you could grow out of, you might be able to reduce it but it’s a part of our genetic make up.

So to say something like I don’t feel intimidated, I don’t feel jealousy etc is code word for I haven’t done the proper work, or I have tried to do the work but I’m going to deny it any ways because I’m not comfortable with being vulnerable

[Resilient]

Jealous / envy and intimidation are very different things. Stick to one script instead of berating people.


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[Sir Bustalot]

And i could argue that still getting jealous because someones hotter than you, cooler than you shows a persons done little to no work since teenage years

[Zyc]

I’m occasionally jealous of people with drive. Most of the time I have the subconscious and conscious idea that I don’t deserve success and what I have is temporary cuz something is gonna come along and fuck it all up. It’s crazy hard for me to fight through that, and seriously keeps me from being as successful as I know I could be with just a bit of the focus and confidence other people have.

Intimidated? No, I just let people do their thing, but the above is my weak point. I let myself be a victim for so long that breaking through that is a struggle.


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[J_o_o_k]

I’m occasionally jealous of people with drive. Most of the time I have the subconscious and conscious idea that I don’t deserve success and what I have is temporary cuz something is gonna come along and fuck it all up. It’s crazy hard for me to fight through that, and seriously keeps me from being as successful as I know I could be with just a bit of the focus and confidence other people have.

Intimidated? No, I just let people do their thing, but the above is my weak point. I let myself be a victim for so long that breaking through that is a struggle.


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I think you recognizing it and doing things to break through that mindset is incredible. This is your year bro. You and @Resilient are going to have life changing years.

[cody]

I’m occasionally jealous of people with drive. Most of the time I have the subconscious and conscious idea that I don’t deserve success and what I have is temporary cuz something is gonna come along and fuck it all up. It’s crazy hard for me to fight through that, and seriously keeps me from being as successful as I know I could be with just a bit of the focus and confidence other people have.


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thanks for sharing!!

[cody]

And i could argue that still getting jealous because someones hotter than you, cooler than you shows a persons done little to no work since teenage years

adults do this the most lol.